Tuesday, January 13, 2009

In a Bad Case

I promised I would post something yesterday night but I had a fever and my throat is so painful. I can’t even get out of bed because my body’s aching too. Hay, I just wish I was at home. Things could have been easier. Masarap din naman kasi ang binibeybi! Hehehe. Good thing I have Tere and Kuya Mak as company.

Anyway, I think I’m ok now; I had my oatmeal for breakfast.

So what was my idea for a post last night? Hmmm…

Were there times that you just wished you heard a bad news and someone else would tell it to you instead of you hearing them first handedly? Maybe it’s a matter of guts that you have to face whatever you must have to face and accept. But there are times you wished a friend or a family was there at the same time they can comfort you.

When I was a freshman here my professor told me that you have to consider the gravity of the situation in case you have to deliver a bad news to an individual. If the situation will affect the family members and/or the community, it is the right for the family members to know. In that way they can help in the treatment process for the patient. Also you have to consider the age of the patient and their state of mind.

But in real life situation, you always have to be prepared and ready.

30 comments:

MakMak said...

It really depends on the "news". Most of the times though, I prefer that I know it first hand especially when it involves me directly. Otherwise, keber. Hahaha. Joke. :)

Pagaling ka Doc.

Rio said...

wow...may dalawang angel pala si doc ced...salamat kay tere at makmak..

pagaling ka doki...

ako?? mas gustokong ako ang unang nakakaalam ng balita...bad man yun o kaya good news..

RJ said...

Mahirap nga 'yong situation na yan Doc Ced, yung pag may bad news at kung papaano sasabihin ito sa mga concerned... Whew! Ang dami ngang dapat i-consider. At usually sa mga medical practitioners nga nangyayari ang ganitong mga situations,, kaya dapat lang na mapag-aralan nyo ang art of saying the bad news sa ibang tao.

Parang ang gulo ng sinabi ko, pero siguro naman nauunawaan mo ang point ko.

AYAN MAY CHALLENGE ka ngayon Doc Ced, pagagalingin mo kaagad ang sarili mo ha.

White said...

aw may sakit ka pala? pagaling ka doc. :)

teresa said...

i second the motion @ Mak..hehe!


get well soon, Dokie.
thankful ka u have me as company

teresa said...

TAKE TWO

i second the motion @ Mak..hehe!


get well soon, Dokie.
thankful ka u have me as company?..ako hindi!!! hangkulet mo kasi evaaaahhhh!

my-so-called-Quest said...

@kuya mak - tama ka! keber? kerber? un ba ung tender heart? salamat kuya! hihi


@doc rio - angel? NAMAN! hahahah
salamat doc!

my-so-called-Quest said...

@kuya Rj - hehe, mahirap nga po. mas mahirap kung ikaw magsasabi dba? hehe

@kuya white - salamat kuya! hehhe

my-so-called-Quest said...

@ tere - TSe! sama mo! huhuhu


makulit nga, cute naman! hehe

yhen1027 said...

re: news, for us (masscommunicators) bad news is good news...

kaya sanay ako sa balita... nakakabigla man o hindi hehe!

pagaling ka ng lubusan...

just passing... ;-)

.::. Vanny .:. said...

ayan! may kasama na ako sa pag take ng pain killer! daliiiii! hahahhaa.

missyou cedeux! =)

Abou said...

kung alam kong me masasaktan, id rather not deliver the news hehe

baka ako mabuntunan ng galit haha

gillboard said...

hope you feel better now...

medyo sanay nako sa ganun... i've always been the bearer of bad news. probly because i know when to shut up.

ced said...

@yhen - oo nga no!?! that's a very positive way of looking to a bad news. hehe

salamat sa pagdaan!=p

@vanny - ahaha! mas madami syempre ung sau! computed ang dosage sa bofy weight! hehe. juk! remember X2! hehe

ced said...

@abou - ahaha, mahirap pero kelangan may gumawa? ahehehe


@gb - nako, basta wag ka magsasabi sa akin. iiyak ako cge ka! hahaha. juk juk!

yoshke said...

first time ko mapadaan dito!

hmmm... saken, gusto ko first hand parati ang info. Maybe it's the control freak in me kaya gusto ko sana lagi, alam ko lahat.

pero sa case mo, hmmm... ang hirap!

and yeah, pagaling ka.

KRIS JASPER said...

I had this dilemma when mum died.

I didnt know how to tell Dad and sis that time, but I later on just blurted it out on phone.

cyndirellaz said...

i strongly agree with this one.. di mo dapat basta basta na lang sabihin ang isang info, isaalang alang dapat ang nararandaman ng isang tao. kailangan din talaga maging ready ka kasi sa mundong ito lahat pwedeng mangyari.. may nabasa akong quote dati which looks like this: be positive but be prepared for the worse! anyway get very well soon. ^^

acey said...

awww, bro. hope you feel better soon! i'm also stuck home. magkapatid talaga siguro tayo. hehe.

yhen1027 said...

magaling ka ba? hehe

Alpha said...

Hi! Just dropping by! NIce blog

yeye said...

bkit k ngkkgnyan? may taning na ba buhay mo. lol. jk

alam ko kung anu makakapagpaigi sa kalagayan mo.ang mahalikan ka ng kras mo. at syempre u' kiss her back. ayt. hahaha. grabeng txt na yan

hehehe
di ko na sasabihin na pagaling ka.
mukhang magaling ka na naman na eh
kaya mo yan. doc ka naman. hihihi

eto na lang: take care of yourself always. gawin mo yn. hahaha. alangan naman di mo gawin

:P

- jUbeRtjOhN - said...

I agree with Makmak. I prefer to know it first than hearing it from someone else.

rest then drink plenty of water.

Pagaling ka doc.

:| jUb.

Coldman said...

get well soon.=)

Allen Yuarata said...

kawawa lagi yung mga doctor sa mga ganitong bagay.

"I'm sorry to tell you but you're going to die tomorrow"

-yung mga ganitong bagay. ang hirap diba? haha.

my-so-called-Quest said...

@yoshke - salamat sa pagdaan. naway nagustuhan mo ang iyong pers time! hehe

mnahirap pero binigyan ka ng authority to do so. laya walang choice. hehe.

@kuya KJ - awww... nalungkot naman ako dun

my-so-called-Quest said...

@cindy - oo nga kahit may authority ka to do so, kailangan my sympathy pa din. ahehe
salamat sa pagdaan!=] dami mong blog. anu ba dun gamit mo? ahehe


@acey - pagaling ka rin lil sis!

my-so-called-Quest said...

@ yhen - magaling na magaling! hahaha. teka san ba un? hahahah



@alpha - i thank you! bow!

my-so-called-Quest said...

@yeye - ubo ng ubo pa rin ako sa class! hahay!


@jub - salamat! hihi

my-so-called-Quest said...

@kuya coldman - salamat! hihi ulit!

@allan - ahaha. kelangan daw magpraktis. hhehehe