Friday, April 4, 2008

Tattle Tales at a Wake

Right after my exams last Tuesday I immediately went home. I packed my travel bag with my uniforms and grabbed whatever’s gonna fit to it. I really miss home and you know how it feels after a very long exam week that you can stay and just lay in your own bed or watch TV up to 3am (I insist of not having a TV here in my dorm, that’s why I’m excited to see a TV. lol).

Two and a half hours later (around 4:30pm) I was home and I saw my parents at our living room. I surprised them and gave them a hug, which I rarely do. We talked a little and then right after I made a snack for us. At around 7 pm we ate dinner! Wahhhh! I really miss home cooked meals. (Sinigang na hipon at daing na galunggong! Sarap! Heheh)

At around 8pm I met my highschool friends, my balikbayan friends, Mr. Milan, Ms. Tokyo and Ms. Jeddah (muning). We went to the wake of Mr. Milan’s Grandfather. It’s been a long time since the first two were back here, and the latter, Ms. Jeddah was back here last February. Hehe
We talked a lot and reminisce a lot and typical me, I didn’t talked much. Maybe I was still tired and sleepless and maybe I don’t really like recalling to them my highschool. As I told you before the only thing that I really liked on that part of my past are my friends. We gossip about the power couples of our batch, the couples that after so many years are still together; we talked about ex crushes and ex lovers, the people who made eruptions of pimples and caused raging hormones since then; we talked about our professors and our negligence back then. We laughed and really had fun. I even had my five minutes Q and A about medical related stuffs. I really enjoyed that because unaware I could answer their questions.

But the ambiance changed when we talked about our present relationships, one wants to settle after 2 years with her love one; one doesn’t believe in marriage; the other one is very much happy in a relationship; and the other one is as for now enjoying his company with someone. (lam nyo na kung sino ako jan. lol). It got messier between two of my friends, they had an argument but I won’t go in to details about that. But when I got home, separately they asked my opinion, but I can’t really answer them back and made them feel they’re both wrong.

So here it goes. First I have to admit sometimes I’m pompous or had criticize someone in some ways, but I was trying to be funny or at least I have to think of it if it’s alright to say or not. Secondly, there are things that are meant to say in public but if you think it will be hurtful to another person, just don’t say it or at least keep it to yourself. Lastly, I thought most of us grownups thinks the same. I mean, as we get older in terms of finding that special someone we looked pass the face or the physical aspect. I am in no position of criticizing a friend’s preference since I’m not good-looking myself. And as we grow older we prefer that someone would love us in return and accept what we are. I love my friends and that’s no secret and I speak so highly of them, but that night, that made me feel that some of us just don’t grow up or some of us stays on that era even though they were from different places. It felt like we were stuck in highschool.

To muning, I’m sorry if I kept my silence but I know you know what I was thinking. Gonna miss you again=] Now, I'm back in my dorm, we still have to wait for the promotion boards, and I think i have to see someone before the vacation starts =]

24 comments:

Dakilang Tambay said...

malandi.. tsk tsk. pupuntahan mo lang si cath e.. hahaha! sabihin mo sakin pag nasa tanza ka na ah.. para kakain tayo ng lugaw.. weee

towr said...

Just droppin... Have a great day!

kurisujae said...

bro,welcome back.dumaan lang po bago ako magbakasyon.kitakits pagkatapos ng big day!:D

ingat bro!

jep said...

welcome back doc.. huwaw eh di nasa uber layong bayan ng tanza ka ngaun? haha..

FerBert said...

nagutom ako dun sa sinigang na hipon. tsktsktsk


Tama may mga bagay na hindi talaga dapat sinasabi na mas mabuting manahimik na lang.. kaya di na ko iimik.. sssshhh na ko.. :|


PS. edit mo comment settings ng blog mo. tanggalin mo word verification.. taena. ang liit ng font eh di ko makita kaya puro error tuloy ako.. boo!

coldman said...

welcome back! ang tagal mo ding nawala!

congrats in advance tapos na lahat ang exams! =)

saminella said...

welkam back doc.
















hug.

cedeux said...

@mia - oo malandi ako, lam mo na kanino ko nagmana! hehe juk juk!

@towr - salamat sa pagdaan. ingats ka bro.

cedeux said...

@kuya kuri - salamat sa pagdaan=]bakasyon na! wwwwooooohoooooo!

@jepp - salamat salamat. dito pa ko QC. lam mo na kung bakit=]

cedeux said...

@fb - sarap ng hipon, papadala ko ngaun dito! weeeeee!

@kuya cold - hehe, slaamat po kuya/sir. sana magbunga sacrifices=]

cedeux said...

@sami - hug! wow sarap naman nun! hehehe. ingats=]

KRIS JASPER said...

And the doctor is in (welcome back!).

Unfortunately most people only grow old, they dont mature. If only all of us know how to respect other's opinions, then wala sanang problema..

cedeux said...

@kuya kris - yey i'm back na! woohooo!yup sadly, kaibigan mo pa ung gaganun sau. ingats ka kuya=]

dak said...

ui! wb!

sarap after ng exams noh? enjoy the summer!

cedeux said...

@doc dak - hehe oo nga e enjoy na tayo! wooooohoooo! hehehe

i need to loose some weight though! haha

Ely said...

ei welcome back! Cheers!

JOSH said...

tnx for d update of ur life kid! haved a wonderful sem break!

Lawstude said...

well said ced, some people really never change.

daing na galunggong? mukhang masarap yan ah.

Anonymous said...

waaah..dont say sorry..alam ko nman ur always at my side..im very happy and nothing else matters..i guess deeply know now who my friends really are..you are definitely one of them. forever yan! miss you!

wanna meet cath! sobrang naiintriga nko! klan kaya? make the move na kc. wahaha!

wait..just wanna know what you were thinking back then..tahimik ka lng cguro nun because u dont like the conversation anymore.
am i right? o xa..npapadalas nako sa blog mo..bka maintriga din cla!haha! mishu mishu! ms. jeddah pala ah..eewwwness!

cedeux said...

@ely - salamat salamat! musta naman?

@kuyajosh - salamat po sa pagbasa palagi. ingats ka din po=]

cedeux said...

@kuya lwastude - salamat sa pagdaan po. yeah, sometimes we forget to act on our age.

cedeux said...

@muning - i just don't like when we talked about the to people na wala noon. napansin ko naman we don't really bad mouth them. ayoko lng ng ganun. partly i was serious nung sinabi ko na ingat tayo kung wala tayo sa susunod.

yaan mo, mamimet mo rin si cath. at mameet ko na rin sana si pooch.

tama ka. yoko na nun, i tried to raise my voice pero mapilit sila. ingats ka jan=]

lunes said...

oioi..nakibasa ng entry!!

see someone agad..dali dali..wehehe..para maganda ang start nga vacation..

natuwa ako sau ced!! ahaha.. sasabihin ko na ang totoo.hindi ko un anak..wehehe..peace!!

chase / chubz said...

welcome back buddy!

what a nice gift to give your parents.. awwww.. very cute